Have you always wondered how much of what you hear, read and watch about sex is true?

What is sex?
How can I have sex?
How does one become a great lover?

 Welcome to HowtoHaveSex.com! 

This website hosts some of my favourites articles about how to have sex.

It is my hope that you begin to take ownership for your well being, including your sexuality and sexual happiness.

Who am I?

Hi, I am a clinical sexologist and I work with people with all types of sexual questions and issues.

I became a sexologist because I found myself getting enraged that there were no real or positive conversations about sexuality in Singapore, not to mention a dire lack of support when it comes to sexual issues.

I researched and decided to pursue my Doctorate in Human Sexuality with the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality in San Francisco, California. I now have my own practice: Eros Coaching.

I do not think sex is the end all and be all. I do not think that sex is the most important thing in a person’s life. I do not think sex is the most important thing in a relationship. It can be for some people at some times in some relationships.

I do think sex is one of the most important things that we can and should be talking about, because it can affect a person’s sense of self as well as well-being. Sex is more than just a physical act; it involves the body, mind, heart and spirit. Sex holds great possibilities for self growth and ecstasy.

I did not dream of being a sexologist. Yet now, sexology is everything I could dream of doing. I am honored to be a channel of compassion, hope, and positivity.

Yours sincerely,

Dr. Martha Lee
Clinical Sexologist